{"id":3706,"date":"2019-07-03T15:00:58","date_gmt":"2019-07-03T15:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wpmu.azurewebsites.net\/nlt\/?p=3706"},"modified":"2021-12-08T09:21:36","modified_gmt":"2021-12-08T09:21:36","slug":"making-courageous-changes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wpmu3.northcentralus.cloudapp.azure.com\/nlt\/2019\/07\/03\/making-courageous-changes\/","title":{"rendered":"Making Courageous Changes"},"content":{"rendered":"
Social media posts reek of fake paradise. When asked, \u201chow are you?\u201d we respond, \u201cfine\u201d or \u201cgood.\u201d We mask our hurts, hide our pain, and try to bury our fears and discomfort because we think being real exposes our weaknesses. We often feel we don\u2019t live up to what others expect, that our walk with Jesus is something less than desired, or we aren\u2019t filled with the joy of the Lord because our reality isn\u2019t perfectly sunny.<\/p>\n
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For years Ann White, founder of Courage for Life (CFL)<\/a>, walked this road every day.<\/p>\n \u201cAs a child I learned to turn a blind eye and pretend everything in life was perfect, even when it was far from it. I grew up learning not to rock the boat, and I carried that dysfunctional coping mechanism into all of my adult relationships, particularly into my marriage. Finding courage to change these bad habits took me a long time,\u201d said Ann.<\/p>\n For 20 years she would take her Bible to church and bring it back, rarely opening it. Her idea of being a Christian was going to church and trying to be good. The word discipleship<\/em> was just about Jesus\u2019 first followers and had no meaning for her. But when she hit rock bottom and the fake contentment was shattered, God opened her eyes to how broken she was. In desperation she cried out, not for a soother but a Savior. (for more on Ann\u2019s personal story you can read her book Courage for Life<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cWe try to fix everything ourselves, but I knew I couldn\u2019t fix this. I needed total guidance from God. His Word brought me to a point where I could truly be strong and courageous\u2014the end of my old self and beginning of my new self in him. I could finally say, \u2018I\u2019m messed up and that\u2019s okay,\u2019\u201d said Ann.<\/p>\n She started getting into God\u2019s Word every day. She was starving and thirsting for it. Her own strength was barely holding life together, but the foundation of God\u2019s Word kept her from falling into despair. With God\u2019s help and wisdom her husband came alongside, and together they faced the realities that were hiding behind their painted-on smiles and the fa\u00e7ade they had created.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen God saves your life, and your 26-year marriage, you want tell everyone about it. The Lord told me to birth a ministry, to reach out to women so they, too, could find their grounding and courage in God\u2019s Word,\u201d said Ann.<\/p>\n Ann obeyed God\u2019s call, birthed CFL<\/a> and started creating resources for women. She initially thought they would be taught in churches, but as she continued to follow God\u2019s leading, the ministry grew. Around the world, CFL<\/a> resources are helping women find their identity in Christ. From church groups to brothels and prisons, women are moving from fear to faith and through Christ are able to make courageous choices that bring change into their own lives and the lives of those around them.<\/p>\n